Are women really looking for a man… or, are they looking for a woman with a penis?

I recently watched an episode of Catfish, a program I don’t usually bother with. An attractive, intelligent young woman had found someone she considered to be absolutely perfect for her, online. They had never actually met even though they had been in communication for something like 2 years… and were talking about moving in together […]

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Romance is a wonderful thing – especially when love is involved!

Romance is a wonderful thing… especially when two people really care about each other! Then, it is not just fun, it is meaningful – an emotionally intimate experience, a reinforcement of affection and respect. It plays its role in keeping a relationship fresh… alive even. However, romance is subjective; your idea of what constitutes a […]

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Dating: 7 ways to avoid giving your power away!

Fancying the pants off someone should be fun! Dating, and becoming a little – or a lot – infatuated, should be an exciting part of a process that eventually leads us to join forces with someone we can imagine ourselves waking up next to every day (and, vice versa, of course) – not the beginning of an […]

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Sick of dating frustration and heartache? You don’t have to be!

Here is some bad news: there is no magical, idealistic way of making romantic love work for us. All of the YouTube videos, guaranteeing to make any man/woman fall in love with us, encouraging game playing and manipulation, won’t work. They might possibly lead to flirtation, superficial attraction… even short-term connection – but they might […]

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