Are women really looking for a man… or, are they looking for a woman with a penis?

January 31, 2020.Reading time 7 minutes.

I recently watched an episode of Catfish, a program I don’t usually bother with. An attractive, intelligent young woman had found someone she considered to be absolutely perfect for her, online. They had never actually met even though they had been in communication for something like 2 years… and were talking about moving in together […]

Romance is a wonderful thing – especially when love is involved!

September 28, 2019.Reading time 12 minutes.

Romance is a wonderful thing… especially when two people really care about each other! Then, it is not just fun, it is meaningful – an emotionally intimate experience, a reinforcement of affection and respect. It plays its role in keeping a relationship fresh… alive even. However, romance is subjective; your idea of what constitutes a […]

The psychic says ‘he’ is your soulmate/twin flame/inevitable connection. But is he… really?

September 27, 2019.Reading time 14 minutes.

So, the psychic says that the object of your emotional desire is your soulmate, your twin flame… your ‘inevitable connection’, even. But what does all of this actually mean? And are they right? I have researched the first two (there wasn’t much on the third), and I couldn’t find anything that tied in with anything […]

Why we are obsessed with romantic relationships – and why we need to change our approach.

August 28, 2019.Reading time 14 minutes.

The human race is obsessed with romantic relationships and the desire to find ‘the one’ – but sadly, it now seems trickier than ever to meet someone and develop a relationship that has long-term potential. Not impossible – but definitely not easy. You might feel that the above statement is a bit over-the-top and rather […]

Why do some men blow hot and cold… or back-off without a word? 9 reasons!

April 4, 2019.Reading time 11 minutes.

He can’t seem to get enough of you, and is constantly texting or calling. He addresses you as babe, gorgeous, sexy or darling. He makes sure he contacts you to say goodnight and to greet you in the morning. He hints at, or even openly talks about, the things that you and he are going […]

Dating: 7 ways to avoid giving your power away!

February 20, 2019.Reading time 8 minutes.

Fancying the pants off someone should be fun! Dating, and becoming a little – or a lot – infatuated, should be an exciting part of a process that eventually leads us to join forces with someone we can imagine ourselves waking up next to every day (and, vice versa, of course) – not the beginning of an […]

Sick of dating frustration and heartache? You don’t have to be!

February 5, 2019.Reading time 11 minutes.

Here is some bad news: there is no magical, idealistic way of making romantic love work for us. All of the YouTube videos, guaranteeing to make any man/woman fall in love with us, encouraging game playing and manipulation, won’t work. They might possibly lead to flirtation, superficial attraction… even short-term connection – but they might […]