Emotional immaturity: habitually reacting to life, rather than responding – it will prevent you from ever moving forward!

I wrote this blog because I recognise just how much conflict and unnecessary pain and drama is created by emotional immaturity; it is entirely disempowering, and yet can so easily be addressed… leading to a much happier, healthier, more productive life. If you are at the mercy of someone who is emotionally immature, you will […]

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Modern dating is a mess: 7 reasons why and 9 empowering pointers!

Getting into and developing a genuine relationship is something that appears to be becoming more and more difficult for many people in the modern world of dating. There are plenty of on-off or ‘is-it-isn’t-it-an-actual-relationship?’ situations going on; there are endless hours of chatting, texting, flirting, hinting and implying being indulged in… many of which end […]

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Intuitive predictions: why they are often a waste of time!

The problem with predictions is that they are generally only understood or accepted in hindsight! After all, if something isn’t happening right now, how can we relate to it, no matter how comprehensively it is described… especially if it doesn’t run in line with with what we hope will, or believe should, unfold? A repeat […]

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A controlling partner feels weak and inadequate – hence the need to dominate.

It is the weakest not the strongest partner who controls a relationship. Do not confuse domineering and bullying behaviour, or emotional over-reaction and manipulation, as strength. It is, more often than not, the compliant, compromising, or silently-suffering partner who is the strongest – because they are trying to handle things without intending to exert control. […]

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