I’m An Overfunctioner, He’s An Over-Reactor. We’re Both Controlling. Welcome To Another Episode Of “That’s It, We’re Through.”

I’ve recently had a huge realisation about myself – and it’s agonisingly difficult to swallow. I am controlling, I am an enabler, and I’ve been acting like a martyr. For years. As a result, I have grasped the twisted thread and followed it backwards – and I can completely understand how and why I became […]

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‘Victims’ Who Habitually Point The Finger Of Blame Are Dangerous Abusers.

Perpetual, self-proclaimed victims are more than an exhausting nuisance – they can be highly dangerous, too. It is absolutely possible to be a genuine victim in life without adopting a victim mentality. I’ve met some amazing, courageous souls who’ve faced hell and yet have somehow managed to retain an awe-inspiring, philosophical, humble outlook. I’ve also […]

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Angry Women Drivers and Other Life Irritations

She came tearing around the bend in the very narrow lane, only just managing to pull her four-wheel drive rocket to a halt before sliding into us. “Lady,” I muttered, “slow the hell down!” She quickly reversed into a small lay-by and waited for us to pass. As we did so, giving a wave of […]

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The Power Of Piss Off In 2026 – A First World Moan

Don’t you sometimes just want to punch the world in its face? (Here’s a weird piece of information: I was recently deep in a meditation when my left arm suddenly shot out, fist balled, and jabbed the air – not once, but twice. Even my astral self has attitude). Don’t you feel exhausted by a […]

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Are We Cut Out For Romantic Relationships? A Cynical Analysis!

 Should everyone be involved in romantic relationships? Actually, I don’t think so. I don’t think we’re all cut out for them. I don’t think I am. I don’t believe I’m equipped for them, based on long-term experience. Don’t get me wrong, I’m a supportive partner, and I often put my own needs to one side, […]

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How To Mentally Survive An Angry Left/Right World

There are many reasons to feel angry at this point in human history. Not only angry, but afraid, too. And defeated.  There are a million (at least that’s how it feels) different causes. Which are vociferously being shoved in our faces, every second of every day. For every argument, a counterargument arises. Followed by a […]

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