Why can’t I be happy? and what is happiness really about?

Several times recently I have been asked about happiness: “will I be happy?”; “is my daughter happy?”; “which career would make me happy?”; “will I be happy in my relationship?”. The thing about happiness is, it’s an inside job; it isn’t entirely dependent upon circumstance (partially dependent, but not wholly and completely – thank goodness). […]

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Are women really looking for a man… or, are they looking for a woman with a penis?

I recently watched an episode of Catfish, a program I don’t usually bother with. An attractive, intelligent young woman had found someone she considered to be absolutely perfect for her, online. They had never actually met even though they had been in communication for something like 2 years… and were talking about moving in together […]

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Is the fear of failure, of not being good enough, holding you prisoner?

Most people don’t feel good enough, and most people fear failure – including those who are globally renowned for being highly successful. So, what does that tell us? That being afraid and self-critical is absolutely normal… and that some human beings allow it to hold them back more than others do. I recently watched the […]

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To succeed you cannot afford to be impatient or cut corners!

I have become fat and I don’t need anyone to offer reassuring platitudes! And I don’t care if anyone dismisses my 2.5 stone (35 lbs) extra weight as inconsiderable, compared to theirs… I can only take care of my own business! Of course, the weight didn’t pile on overnight; it is something that occured over […]

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The secret to personal power… let your higher-self rule, not your lower-self!

I know when my lower-self is holding the reins and it never leads to anything productive. My lower-self causes me to thinks thoughts that are not for the greater food, and to react to life’s circumstances rather than respond. My lower-self behaves in a second-rate manner which usually results in me letting myself and others […]

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2020! Forget new year resolutions: commit to inspired promises!

What does 2020 hold for you? What possibilities and pitfalls lie in wait… and how many different potential pathways are likely to stretch out ahead of you? Are you likely to start the new year with a list of resolutions such as losing weight, getting fitter, or giving up smoking and/or drinking? If so, what […]

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Want to attract a committed relationship? Approach it with precision!

I have been giving this subject a lot of thought for some time. After all, a huge number of those who purchase a consultation from me are either looking for love or requesting insight into a love interest. I have also seen the struggles that personal associates have experienced in the search for a decent […]

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Personal empowerment requires real honesty – are you brave enough to take it?

If something is to empower us, or lead toward our empowerment, it has to be honest. And by honest I don’t mean passive-aggressive or downright nasty; if someone snarls at you, “do you know what your problem is? You can’t take the truth!” they don’t have your greater good at heart. Genuine, well-meant honesty definitely […]

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