If we ask “When will my life get better?”, are we perceiving ourselves as victims? And how do we even know if we are feeling, thinking, and behaving like a victim? Well, here are 11 symptoms of a victim mindset: 1) We consistently focus on the past and the ways in which we, or those […]
“Love yourself more” is something we are told again and again. “No one can love you if you don’t already love yourself” is another. But, what does self-love actually feel like? And how do we become or do something if we don’t understand what it entails? To a lot of people, self-love is not a […]
The world we are currently living in is one I no longer recognise – and I know that others feel the same way, too. It’s become unbearably complicated and messy, and planning ahead seems pointless, given that the ‘truth’ changes from one minute to the next. And although corruption appears to be at an all-time […]
This has been an odd blog post to write. It’s a bit off-piste – and is likely to attract a few negative comments (none of which I will respond to). It was just something I decided to try, mainly because I’ve been feeling increasingly stressed, angry, and anxious about what is currently going on in […]
“Am I destined to be single and alone for the rest of my life?” This is a question I have been asked, several times, during the past twelve months. And, though it has to be said that the most common reason that anyone anywhere in the world uses an intuitive service is to ask about […]
Now, more than ever, it is imperative that we become more personally empowered. The problem with the term ‘personal empowerment’ is that it is overused and smacks of glitzy self-help hype. So, let’s try putting it another way… such as ‘better equipped’, or ‘stronger from within’. It is resilience that we need, as expressed by […]
I needed to achieve a particular goal, so I wrote it down on a piece of paper and left it where I could easily see it, every day. In truth, the main purpose of this was to reassure myself! “I am attracting a lovely home with a garage, that is pet friendly, in a convenient […]
Today is the second of January, 2022. I’ll admit to feeling a bit like one of the walking wounded – as so many of us do. I have written my goals for the forthcoming year in my new journal, and I have a list of things I want to complete today. I used to feel […]
A young woman recently contacted me to ask about a new love interest. They had been talking, on and off, for less than a month – and she was anxious to know if he was really attracted to her and if she should trust him. She was, she concluded, incredibly confused – whilst I was […]
More than at any other time in our recent past, we need to remember what love is – and how it behaves. And I am not referring to infatuation or sexual attraction – I am talking about love. It is so easy to throw the word around with abandon, incorrectly attaching it to situations that […]