You Are A Vibrational Being. So, What Are You Aligning Yourself With?

Without wanting to sound woo-woo, I have a question for you: How are you doing, vibrationally? You see, we are all energetically vibrational beings, existing within a vibrational universe. To quote Tam Hunt, in the blog post The Hippies Were Right: It’s All about Vibrations, Man!:  “All things in our universe are constantly in motion, […]

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Want To Be More Confident? Then Focus On Developing Stronger Self-Belief.

Confidence is something we believe that others have – and we don’t. We also believe that we need to have confidence before trying anything new. And we definitely blame lack of confidence for not trying anything new. We envy those who appear to have it in bucket loads, convincing ourselves that life is easier for […]

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Anxiety, anxiety, anxiety – can we please talk about something else?

As a current inhabitant of planet Earth, I can assure you that there is plenty to be anxious about… even if we don’t listen to the news or follow it on social media. Right now, apart from all of the usual stuff, I would say that there are three specific sources of notable anxiety in […]

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Ambitious Women – Do Not Allow An Insecure Partner To Diminish You!

I am not a man basher and I have no time for women who are (as much as I am not a woman basher and have no time for men who are). However, I have witnessed far too many men attempting to undermine their partner or steal their thunder… and, having been on the receiving […]

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No motivation? What you REALLY need is desire (and a bit of patience…)

What on earth is motivation? We’re always banging on about it. We need it, we want it, we lack it – and when we do manage to find it, we struggle to maintain it. According to Google, one definition of motivation is: a reason or reasons for acting or behaving in a particular way Another […]

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Is it really love? And can love conquer all? Maybe, maybe not.

A young woman recently asked me, very sadly, why it is they say that love conquers all – when it clearly doesn’t? Having been suddenly and unexpectedly dumped by her partner of ten years, in a particularly cold-hearted way, she was left wondering whether he’d actually ever truly loved her… and what love was even […]

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The spiritual lie that makes you believe you are responsible for everything

Joan was perfectly happy in her cosy home – until the new neighbours moved in next door. Loud, aggressive, intrusive and abusive, they made life a living hell for the private and reflective single woman. “What have I done to attract this into my life?” she mournfully asked me, believing that she must be responsible. […]

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Compulsive Liars, And The Devastation They Leave In Their Wake.

Compulsive liars are dangerous. They have the ability to convince you that you are the unreasonable one – the crazy one, even. And they get a buzz from making you look bad to others by presenting them with a seriously butchered version of the truth – in which they always star as the victim. The […]

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Why can’t I be happy? and what is happiness really about?

Several times recently I have been asked about happiness: “will I be happy?”; “is my daughter happy?”; “which career would make me happy?”; “will I be happy in my relationship?”. The thing about happiness is, it’s an inside job; it isn’t entirely dependent upon circumstance (partially dependent, but not wholly and completely – thank goodness). […]

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