Personal empowerment requires real honesty – are you brave enough to take it?

If something is to empower us, or lead toward our empowerment, it has to be honest. And by honest I don’t mean passive-aggressive or downright nasty; if someone snarls at you, “do you know what your problem is? You can’t take the truth!” they don’t have your greater good at heart. Genuine, well-meant honesty definitely […]

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Emotional immaturity: habitually reacting to life, rather than responding – it will prevent you from ever moving forward!

I wrote this blog because I recognise just how much conflict and unnecessary pain and drama is created by emotional immaturity; it is entirely disempowering, and yet can so easily be addressed… leading to a much happier, healthier, more productive life. If you are at the mercy of someone who is emotionally immature, you will […]

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Are you a fixer… who believes that more love is all that is needed?

Questions: 1) Are you a fixer? 2) Do you crave to be the woman or man who shows your partner the meaning of ‘real’ love… the only one who has ever truly understood them? 3) Do you believe that if you pour enough love into a dysfunctional relationship you will definitely be able to heal […]

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Looking for love? Save time, energy and heartache – BE YOURSELF!

Joanne was desperate to be in a committed relationship (and I am not exaggerating or just being unkind, I promise you!), but she consistently behaved as if she was an independent-minded party girl who just wanted a good time. After yet another bitter dating disappointment, I asked her why she continued to present herself in […]

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