Struggling to find love – do we need to step back and reassess?

From a professional standpoint, it is clear to me that finding a decent relationship with long-term potential is becoming increasingly difficult. Every day, emails from frustrated love-seekers find their way into my inbox – and the numbers are growing. So, here’s a question? Is there a better way to view and approach the task of […]

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Modern dating is a mess: 7 reasons why and 9 empowering pointers!

Getting into and developing a genuine relationship is something that appears to be becoming more and more difficult for many people in the modern world of dating. There are plenty of on-off or ‘is-it-isn’t-it-an-actual-relationship?’ situations going on; there are endless hours of chatting, texting, flirting, hinting and implying being indulged in… many of which end […]

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9 Reasons Some Men Blow Hot and Cold – or Ghost You!

Before we get to the 9 reasons some men blow hot and cold or ghost you, allow me to set the scene: He can’t seem to get enough of you and is constantly texting or calling. He addresses you as babe, gorgeous, sexy, or darling. He makes sure he contacts you to say goodnight, or […]

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Looking for love? Save time, energy and heartache – BE YOURSELF!

Joanne was desperate to be in a committed relationship (and I am not exaggerating or just being unkind, I promise you!), but she consistently behaved as if she was an independent-minded party girl who just wanted a good time. After yet another bitter dating disappointment, I asked her why she continued to present herself in […]

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Sick of dating frustration and heartache? You don’t have to be!

Here is some bad news: there is no magical, idealistic way of making romantic love work for us. All of the YouTube videos, guaranteeing to make any man/woman fall in love with us, encouraging game playing and manipulation, won’t work. They might possibly lead to flirtation, superficial attraction… even short-term connection – but they might […]

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