From a professional standpoint, it is clear to me that finding a decent relationship with long-term potential is becoming increasingly difficult. Every day, emails from frustrated love-seekers find their way into my inbox – and the numbers are growing. So, here’s a question? Is there a better way to view and approach the task of […]
Why are we so resistant to anything we don’t want to hear, where our love life is concerned? Why do we choose to be blind to obvious warning signs when it comes to matters of the heart, in a way that we wouldn’t be with other areas of our life? These are questions I have […]
Getting into and developing a genuine relationship is something that appears to be becoming more and more difficult for many people in the modern world of dating. There are plenty of on-off or ‘is-it-isn’t-it-an-actual-relationship?’ situations going on; there are endless hours of chatting, texting, flirting, hinting and implying being indulged in… many of which end […]
The human race is obsessed with romantic relationships and the desire to find ‘the one’ – but sadly, it now seems trickier than ever to meet someone and develop a relationship that has long-term potential. Not impossible – but definitely not easy. You might feel that the above statement is a bit over-the-top and rather […]
It is true that the sexual objectification of women – by some men – has probably been going on since human beings first graced the earth. It is no secret and we all know about it. In fact, before beginning this blog, I Googled, ‘the objectification of men’, curious to see what would come up […]
Would you remain in a relationship in which you are clearly not at the top of the list of your partner’s priorities? Would you hang onto an on-off situation with a person whom you suspect has other love interests, who consistently keeps you at arm’s length, but who reels you back in if it appears […]
Here’s a secret that’s not really a secret: men tend to reveal their actual intentions and feelings through their actions, rather than their words! Now, you might think that that is an obvious statement, and something that is true for both genders – but you’d be wrong, and I will explain why. It is true […]
Before we get to the 9 reasons some men blow hot and cold or ghost you, allow me to set the scene: He can’t seem to get enough of you and is constantly texting or calling. He addresses you as babe, gorgeous, sexy, or darling. He makes sure he contacts you to say goodnight, or […]
Joanne was desperate to be in a committed relationship (and I am not exaggerating or just being unkind, I promise you!), but she consistently behaved as if she was an independent-minded party girl who just wanted a good time. After yet another bitter dating disappointment, I asked her why she continued to present herself in […]
Here is some bad news: there is no magical, idealistic way of making romantic love work for us. All of the YouTube videos, guaranteeing to make any man/woman fall in love with us, encouraging game playing and manipulation, won’t work. They might possibly lead to flirtation, superficial attraction… even short-term connection – but they might […]