Make your goals visible and colourful, and engage with them every day!

(Originally published at: https://fabfit40plus.com/2019/03/01/make-your-goals-visible-and-colourful-and-engage-with-them-every-day/). My positivity board is fixed to the wall in my cozy little office, as a colourful reminder of some of my hopes, dreams and intentions. When I created it, I was focusing on the main things that were on my mind at that time, but I now feel that I need an additional […]

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Dating: 7 ways to avoid giving your power away!

Fancying the pants off someone should be fun! Dating, and becoming a little – or a lot – infatuated, should be an exciting part of a process that eventually leads us to join forces with someone we can imagine ourselves waking up next to every day (and, vice versa, of course) – not the beginning of an […]

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Tough-love questions about the search for soulmate love!

If you really want to attract the kind of relationship that has genuine, positive, long-term potential… if you even just want to remove the angst and drama from your would-be love life, turning it into a more relaxed and enjoyable process… my advice would be to place your focus on yourself, and your personal development […]

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Sick of dating frustration and heartache? You don’t have to be!

Here is some bad news: there is no magical, idealistic way of making romantic love work for us. All of the YouTube videos, guaranteeing to make any man/woman fall in love with us, encouraging game playing and manipulation, won’t work. They might possibly lead to flirtation, superficial attraction… even short-term connection – but they might […]

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An ideal ‘delivery’, courtesy of the law of attraction!

My partner and I had driven to Bangor, to finally have the eye tests we had been talking about for months, a journey we don’t make very often at all – in fact, he hadn’t been there for around 4 years! We decided to have a quick mooch around, and, discovering that a huge number […]

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Future versions of YOU: which one will you align with?

Right now, there are probably several versions of yourself, alive, kicking and active, somewhere out there in the ‘future’. Some will say, “what the hell are you talking about?? Are you crazy!” And I will respond, “very possibly, but nevertheless, I believe that it’s true”.  And to jump onto the science bandwagon, my very, very, […]

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