“When Will My Life Get Better?” Are you thinking like a victim? 11 Symptoms and 11 Solutions

March 2, 2023.Reading time 15 minutes.

If we ask “When will my life get better?”, are we perceiving ourselves as victims? And how do we even know if we are feeling, thinking, and behaving like a victim? Well, here are 11 symptoms of a victim mindset: 1) We consistently focus on the past and the ways in which we, or those […]

Why can’t I be happy? and what is happiness really about?

May 26, 2020.Reading time 15 minutes.

Several times recently I have been asked about happiness: “will I be happy?”; “is my daughter happy?”; “which career would make me happy?”; “will I be happy in my relationship?”. The thing about happiness is, it’s an inside job; it isn’t entirely dependent upon circumstance (partially dependent, but not wholly and completely – thank goodness). […]

“Nothing good ever happens to me!” You DO NOT want to think, say, or believe this!

May 25, 2019.Reading time 9 minutes.

It is a phrase I have heard many, many times – and it is always a lie! Think about it: NOTHING good EVER happens to me. Nothing? Ever? The last time this miserable phrase assaulted my ears was courtesy of someone who was having the kind of uncomfortable problems we all experience in life – […]

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