Are women really looking for a man… or, are they looking for a woman with a penis?

January 31, 2020.Reading time 7 minutes.

I recently watched an episode of Catfish, a program I don’t usually bother with. An attractive, intelligent young woman had found someone she considered to be absolutely perfect for her, online. They had never actually met even though they had been in communication for something like 2 years… and were talking about moving in together […]

Romance is a wonderful thing – especially when love is involved!

September 28, 2019.Reading time 12 minutes.

Romance is a wonderful thing… especially when two people really care about each other! Then, it is not just fun, it is meaningful – an emotionally intimate experience, a reinforcement of affection and respect. It plays its role in keeping a relationship fresh… alive even. However, romance is subjective; your idea of what constitutes a […]

The psychic says ‘he’ is your soulmate/twin flame/inevitable connection. But is he… really?

September 27, 2019.Reading time 14 minutes.

So, the psychic says that the object of your emotional desire is your soulmate, your twin flame… your ‘inevitable connection’, even. But what does all of this actually mean? And are they right? I have researched the first two (there wasn’t much on the third), and I couldn’t find anything that tied in with anything […]

Modern dating is a mess: 7 reasons why and 9 empowering pointers!

September 8, 2019.Reading time 38 minutes.

Getting into and developing a genuine relationship is something that appears to be becoming more and more difficult for many people in the modern world of dating. There are plenty of on-off or ‘is-it-isn’t-it-an-actual-relationship?’ situations going on; there are endless hours of chatting, texting, flirting, hinting and implying being indulged in… many of which end […]

Tough-love questions about the search for soulmate love!

February 11, 2019.Reading time 10 minutes.

If you really want to attract the kind of relationship that has genuine, positive, long-term potential… if you even just want to remove the angst and drama from your would-be love life, turning it into a more relaxed and enjoyable process… my advice would be to place your focus on yourself, and your personal development […]

Online dating – approach it with caution and common sense!

December 6, 2016.Reading time 10 minutes.

Online dating may work out well for some, but for so many others it eats into their time, emotional energy and self-confidence. I am no man-basher, but it appears that too many men are treating online dating sites like supermarkets. They are popping things (women or other men) into their trolley, whilst continuing to browse […]