From a professional standpoint, it is clear to me that finding a decent relationship with long-term potential is becoming increasingly difficult. Every day, emails from frustrated love-seekers find their way into my inbox – and the numbers are growing. So, here’s a question? Is there a better way to view and approach the task of […]
I am not a man basher and I have no time for women who are (as much as I am not a woman basher and have no time for men who are). However, I have witnessed far too many men attempting to undermine their partner or steal their thunder… and, having been on the receiving […]
Compulsive liars are dangerous. They have the ability to convince you that you are the unreasonable one – the crazy one, even. And they get a buzz from making you look bad to others by presenting them with a seriously butchered version of the truth – in which they always star as the victim. The […]
We’ve all done it: bitched and moaned to friends and family about our partner – listing every misdemeanour, explaining all of the ways in which they have been letting us down – only to get it off our chest and feel so much better about them. Until next time. But, each time we do it, […]
Are you in a relationship with an immature resister? You will know if you are, because even the smallest thing can turn into a battle for perceived control! To explain what I mean, I will give you a few examples of resistant behaviour from my own past: He insists on taking an alternative route from […]
Is your own thinking driving you crazy? Are your thought processes muddled, scattered, and highly emotionally-charged? Rarely, occasionally… or very regularly? If so, do you have the guts to admit this to yourself, and commit to change – for the sake of your own sanity (and possibly other people’s, too!)? Emotionally reactive thinking is rapidly […]
It is a phrase I have heard many, many times – and it is always a lie! Think about it: NOTHING good EVER happens to me. Nothing? Ever? The last time this miserable phrase assaulted my ears was around 2 months ago, courtesy of someone who was having the kind of uncomfortable problems we all […]
There’s a reality TV show currently running, featuring the same group of people, all competing to make the most amount of profit from the sales of secondhand goods. One particular couple make unpleasant viewing, as the woman persistently and publicly berates and belittles her partner, whilst he slumps around, looking miserable. Very occasionally, he rises […]