It is true that the sexual objectification of women – by some men – has probably been going on since human beings first graced the earth. It is no secret and we all know about it. In fact, before beginning this blog, I Googled, ‘the objectification of men’, curious to see what would come up… […]
If you have been fixating on your love life – especially lack of – you will already know how exhausting and soul-destroying it can be! The good news is, if you can wean yourself off the habit, you are much more likely to end up achieving what you originally hoped for… and maybe even more. […]
Reason number 1 – Jumping in too soon. Getting ahead of ourselves… prematurely trying to figure out where an attraction is heading. Making future plans way too soon. Asking that highly charged question that changes everything: “Is this person THE ONE?” Asked too soon, this question can be the kiss of death for a budding […]
Commitment is a word I have heard and read so many times over the years that I have come to call it the ‘big C’; the idea of it has a highly seductive quality that can suck us in, and the capacity to induce yearning, need, desperation… and even fear! So, let’s say that you […]
He can’t seem to get enough of you, and is constantly texting or calling. He addresses you as babe, gorgeous, sexy or darling. He makes sure he contacts you to say goodnight and to greet you in the morning. He hints at, or even openly talks about, the things that you and he are going […]
Joanne was desperate to be in a committed relationship (and I am not exaggerating or just being unkind, I promise you!), but she consistently behaved as if she was an independent-minded party girl who just wanted a good time. After yet another bitter dating disappointment, I asked her why she continued to present herself in […]