Emotional immaturity: habitually reacting to life, rather than responding – it will prevent you from ever moving forward!

I wrote this blog because I recognise just how much conflict and unnecessary pain and drama is created by emotional immaturity; it is entirely disempowering, and yet can so easily be addressed… leading to a much happier, healthier, more productive life. If you are at the mercy of someone who is emotionally immature, you will […]

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Are you a fixer… who believes that more love is all that is needed?

Questions: 1) Are you a fixer? 2) Do you crave to be the woman or man who shows your partner the meaning of ‘real’ love… the only one who has ever truly understood them? 3) Do you believe that if you pour enough love into a dysfunctional relationship you will definitely be able to heal […]

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Rejection leads to obsession… and so the pain goes on. HOW do we break the cycle?

  The pain of rejection! Rejection hurts like hell, and has the capacity to lead us into some pretty self-destructive patterns of behaviour. There are those amongst us who are particularly susceptible, of course, but every last one of us will experience the gut-wrenching pain of rejection – not just once, but many, many times, throughout our […]

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