The Psychic Arena Stinks Of Bulls**t

I have been a professional psychic for 30 years — as in, it has been my full-time profession, alongside my writing ‘career’. And I can tell you that the psychic arena stinks to high heaven of BS. Is psychic ability a gift? Not in the way it is commonly presented. You could say that anyone who is […]

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People Who Consistently Slam Doors Are Selfish A-Holes!

This is a strange, short rant. But I have to get it off my chest. Living close to people who seem incapable of closing a door, instead allowing it to bang shut, is a real source of stress. Especially when they come and go every five minutes (what are they doing?). I wonder why they […]

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How The Pain Of Childhood Rejection Haunts Us In Adulthood.

Our first experience of rejection often occurs in childhood — and it can be lethal. We might find ourselves shunned, ignored, or even abused by those who are supposed to love and protect us. We don’t understand what is occurring because we’re young and vulnerable, so we assume that we must be stupid, ugly, or unlovable. We […]

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Is sex between committed couples becoming less and less frequent?

Appearances would suggest that the adult world is awash with great sex. Passionate couples, barely able to keep their hands off each other, are engaging in hot and sweaty bedroom gymnastics. Every night. Several times a night. However, appearances can be deceptive and I’ve come to seriously question them. Here’s why. More and more frequently, […]

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Caring for a loved one with a mental health problem can take a serious toll on you.

Supporting a loved one with long-term mental health problems is hard. And it can be a thankless task. The afflicted person is likely to be largely self-absorbed, because that is the nature of the beast. They are consumed by their own discomfort and unhappiness, and, because they are struggling to manage their own feelings, they […]

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At 66, I might have 16 Christmases left… more, if I’m lucky.

The average age of death in the UK is 82 (well, 81.92, to be exact). So, that means, if I’m average, I might have 16 Christmases left. Obviously, I’d like more. That would be a bonus. There is, of course, always the chance I’ll have fewer… but I’ll stick with being optimistic, for now. I […]

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