Modern dating is a mess: 7 reasons why and 9 empowering pointers!

Getting into and developing a genuine relationship is something that appears to be becoming more and more difficult for many people in the modern world of dating. There are plenty of on-off or ‘is-it-isn’t-it-an-actual-relationship?’ situations going on; there are endless hours of chatting, texting, flirting, hinting and implying being indulged in… many of which end […]

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Intuitive predictions: why they are often a waste of time!

The problem with predictions is that they are generally only understood or accepted in hindsight! After all, if something isn’t happening right now, how can we relate to it, no matter how comprehensively it is described… especially if it doesn’t run in line with with what we hope will, or believe should, unfold? A repeat […]

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A controlling partner feels weak and inadequate – hence the need to dominate.

It is the weakest not the strongest partner who controls a relationship. Do not confuse domineering and bullying behaviour, or emotional over-reaction and manipulation, as strength. It is, more often than not, the compliant, compromising, or silently-suffering partner who is the strongest – because they are trying to handle things without intending to exert control. […]

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Why fixating on love – or lack of – seriously holds us back!

If you have been fixating on your love life – especially lack of – you will already know how exhausting and soul-destroying it can be! The good news is, if you can wean yourself off the habit, you are much more likely to end up achieving what you originally hoped for… and maybe even more. […]

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