You felt a ‘connection’ with your POI – but what is it really all about?

“We made a connection”, or “I thought we had a connection, but… !” are two things that anyone who provides intuitive consultations will hear over and over again – occasionally from men, but generally from women. A connection is an emotional thing, a feeling – and technically speaking, for it to be a genuine, actual  […]

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Modern dating is a mess: 7 reasons why and 9 empowering pointers!

Getting into and developing a genuine relationship is something that appears to be becoming more and more difficult for many people in the modern world of dating. There are plenty of on-off or ‘is-it-isn’t-it-an-actual-relationship?’ situations going on; there are endless hours of chatting, texting, flirting, hinting and implying being indulged in… many of which end […]

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A controlling partner feels weak and inadequate – hence the need to dominate.

It is the weakest not the strongest partner who controls a relationship. Do not confuse domineering and bullying behaviour, or emotional over-reaction and manipulation, as strength. It is, more often than not, the compliant, compromising, or silently-suffering partner who is the strongest – because they are trying to handle things without intending to exert control. […]

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