Want to attract a committed relationship? Approach it with precision!

I have been giving this subject a lot of thought for some time. After all, a huge number of those who purchase a consultation from me are either looking for love or requesting insight into a love interest. I have also seen the struggles that personal associates have experienced in the search for a decent […]

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Gaining insight and information about another person – intuitively speaking!

Is it wrong to check another person out, intuitively speaking? To gain insight and information about a love interest, a colleague, or someone whose behaviour is creating problems for us? I don’t believe so, even though they themselves won’t know that they are being assessed by an intuitive consultant! However, there are certain no-no’s. For […]

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Are you a fixer… who believes that more love is all that is needed?

Questions: 1) Are you a fixer? 2) Do you crave to be the woman or man who shows your partner the meaning of ‘real’ love… the only one who has ever truly understood them? 3) Do you believe that if you pour enough love into a dysfunctional relationship you will definitely be able to heal […]

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Looking for love? Save time, energy and heartache – BE YOURSELF!

Joanne was desperate to be in a committed relationship (and I am not exaggerating or just being unkind, I promise you!), but she consistently behaved as if she was an independent-minded party girl who just wanted a good time. After yet another bitter dating disappointment, I asked her why she continued to present herself in […]

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Dating: 7 ways to avoid giving your power away!

Fancying the pants off someone should be fun! Dating, and becoming a little – or a lot – infatuated, should be an exciting part of a process that eventually leads us to join forces with someone we can imagine ourselves waking up next to every day (and, vice versa, of course) – not the beginning of an […]

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Tough-love questions about the search for soulmate love!

If you really want to attract the kind of relationship that has genuine, positive, long-term potential… if you even just want to remove the angst and drama from your would-be love life, turning it into a more relaxed and enjoyable process… my advice would be to place your focus on yourself, and your personal development […]

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Sick of dating frustration and heartache? You don’t have to be!

Here is some bad news: there is no magical, idealistic way of making romantic love work for us. All of the YouTube videos, guaranteeing to make any man/woman fall in love with us, encouraging game playing and manipulation, won’t work. They might possibly lead to flirtation, superficial attraction… even short-term connection – but they might […]

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Online dating sites: a little insight, especially for the ladies!

I know a young woman who has been experimenting with a number of online dating sites for some time now, and I have been fascinated and repelled by her experiences, in equal amounts. One day I realised that she and her friend were having a good old laugh at the guys who had messaged her, […]

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Online dating – approach it with caution and common sense!

Online dating may work out well for some, but for so many others it eats into their time, emotional energy and self-confidence.  I am no man-basher, but it appears that too many men are treating online dating sites like supermarkets. They are popping things (women or other men) into their trolley, whilst continuing to browse […]

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