Is your partner an immature resister, making your relationship hard work?

Are you in a relationship with an immature resister? You will know if you are, because even the smallest thing can turn into a battle for perceived control! To explain what I mean, I will give you a few examples of resistant behaviour from my own past: He insists on taking an alternative route from […]

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Dating frustration and disappointment – 6 big reasons!

Reason number 1 – Jumping in too soon. Getting ahead of ourselves… prematurely trying to figure out where an attraction is heading. Making future plans way too soon. Asking that highly charged question that changes everything: “Is this person THE ONE?” Asked too soon, this question can be the kiss of death for a budding […]

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Are your emotions running the show? Are your thoughts and feelings driving you crazy?

Is your own thinking driving you crazy? Are your thought processes muddled, scattered, and highly emotionally-charged? Rarely, occasionally… or very regularly? If so, do you have the guts to admit this to yourself, and commit to change – for the sake of your own sanity (and possibly other people’s, too!)? Emotionally reactive thinking is rapidly […]

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In a ‘committed’ relationship – but why won’t he marry you?

Commitment is a word I have heard and read so many times over the years that I have come to call it the ‘big C’; the idea of it has a highly seductive quality that can suck us in, and the capacity to induce yearning, need, desperation… and even fear! So, let’s say that you […]

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Gaining insight and information about another person – intuitively speaking!

Is it wrong to check another person out, intuitively speaking? To gain insight and information about a love interest, a colleague, or someone whose behaviour is creating problems for us? I don’t believe so, even though they themselves won’t know that they are being assessed by an intuitive consultant! However, there are certain no-no’s. For […]

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