Modern dating is a mess: 7 reasons why and 9 empowering pointers!

Getting into and developing a genuine relationship is something that appears to be becoming more and more difficult for many people in the modern world of dating. There are plenty of on-off or ‘is-it-isn’t-it-an-actual-relationship?’ situations going on; there are endless hours of chatting, texting, flirting, hinting and implying being indulged in… many of which end […]

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A controlling partner feels weak and inadequate – hence the need to dominate.

It is the weakest not the strongest partner who controls a relationship. Do not confuse domineering and bullying behaviour, or emotional over-reaction and manipulation, as strength. It is, more often than not, the compliant, compromising, or silently-suffering partner who is the strongest – because they are trying to handle things without intending to exert control. […]

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Women objectifying men – as potential partners!

It is true that the sexual objectification of women – by some men – has probably been going on since human beings first graced the earth. It is no secret and we all know about it. In fact, before beginning this blog, I Googled, ‘the objectification of men’, curious to see what would come up… […]

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Why fixating on love – or lack of – seriously holds us back!

If you have been fixating on your love life – especially lack of – you will already know how exhausting and soul-destroying it can be! The good news is, if you can wean yourself off the habit, you are much more likely to end up achieving what you originally hoped for… and maybe even more. […]

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